Questions are the most amazing things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his best selling ever book, “How to win friends and influence people” writes about the simple power of asking questions to show that we are interested in someone else.

Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will most likely attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you’re a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you’re a woman and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started

1. If you’re a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?

3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?

7. If there was something that you missed doing in this lifetime what was it?

8. What has been the abnormal experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?

11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?

12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?

14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?

Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!

15. Have you ever been caught with no clothes on in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What’s the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What turns you on the most?

19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?

20. Have you ever been caught masturbating? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?

21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?

If you would like to read some more fun questions that you can ask different guys then visit 21 questions to ask a guy today.

I moved into a new neighborhood last summer, thinking it looked like a normal place to live. My neighbors all seemed nice and normal, there wasn’t anything too strange about them. The day after Thanksgiving, I changed my opinion. When I left for work that morning, all was well in my neighborhood. When I returned home in the early evening, my jaw dropped. I thought that perhaps I was on the wrong road. Apparently, my neighbors try to outdo each other with their outdoor Christmas decorations. The house directly across from me, as well as on both sides of my house, had outdoor Christmas decorations covering their front lawns and homes.

You can always tell the houses that have put a lot of effort into getting the perfect outdoor Christmas decoration together, and the houses that simply have not.

Outside decoration in general is important, but outdoor Christmas decorations are the most important of the whole year! Many people think that Christmas decorations outside have to be a whole new thing, completely separate from any other decorations that you have used the rest of the year, but that just is not the case. One the contrary, your Outside Christmas Decoration can really build on what you already y have in your yard. As a matter of fact, if you want your Outside Christmas Decoration to look really good, it almost has to build on how things already look.

Of course, there are so many different approaches to outdoor Christmas decorations, that I barely know where I should begin. A lot of people think that, if they do not have the energy, money, or time to create a whole Christmas diorama, either with reindeer and Santa Claus, or else with a manger scene, then there is no point in doing it at all. They are quite mistaken. Just having some nice lights strung artfully through your evergreen trees and along the eaves of your house makes for some great outdoor Christmas decorations. Don’t put yourself out in designing spectacular outdoor christmas decorations that range all over your front yard. Start smaller, especially if you have not really decorated for Chritsmas before.

If you have icicles hanging from your eaves, you can use your Outside Christmas Decoration to accentuate these. Small white lights set just above, or just behind icicles give them a brilliant glow and glimmer not soon to be forgotten. Now your Outside Christmas Decoration has gotten downright classy, and all for under 50 dollars if you are careful about where you buy your Christmas lights. It is all in the planning, and that means taking stock of what you have and figuring out ways to make it look the best that it possibly can!

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